Sometimes we go through so much that it becomes hard to see our accomplishments. The day-to-day unpredictability of life can be so draining, so disheartening …
You’re Unbecoming
One of the major things I revealed about myself in my memoir was how I changed my identity based on whoever was around me at …
You Survived
That abandonment from childhood. That abusive marriage. That miscarriage. That abortion. The loss of your mother. The rejection from your child. Not getting the dream …
Liberty (Let’s Talk About It)
Many of you have read my memoir, the first book in the b.o.n.d.a.g.e Series. Some of you read it in hours, eating my words like …
My Mama Dead (from The Grief Series)
I miss the sound of her hum. The smell of her hands. The twinkle in her eye when she thought she was being funny. I …
It’s All Okay
Some days you feel weaker than others and that’s okay. Some days anger rises to the surface and that’s okay. Some days you don’t want …
Roller Coasters
One of the worse feelings you’ll have is the let down after a victory. You know what I mean. You celebrate the purchase of your …
Forgiveness
I wrote the post below on January 8, 2014, after one of the hardest times of my life. Although it is often the hardest thing …